Hi Everyone, I don’t have a premium account here so I lack the ability to make direct replies. But I just wanted to thank all of you again, so much, from the bottom of my heart, for all of your candid observations, input, and advice. You all are really helping me, so many ways.
A few of you have brought up questions around the issue of the grocery cashier inappropriately accessing our business phone number from company records.
I want to let you all know that I did lodge a formal complaint with the data privacy department of the grocery store chain’s corporate office last week.
So far, all I have received is a generic intake telephone call from an intake specialist, confirming my contact details. The Specialist let me know the area district manager will have to review the case, and it will be up to 10 business days before I get a reply. In the meantime, I have asked my wife to not visit that grocery store, and I have location tracking on her that allows me to confirm that my request has not been violated.
Another issue is the matter of a polygraph test.
On careful consideration, and in weighing the very rational input many of you have provided here, I have decided to go ahead with this. I have not actually scheduled an appointment yet, but will do so as soon as I receive my wife’s detailed written timeline, which she is currently working on. I let her know to include absolutely everything in her written account.
Once again, I can’t thank all of you enough for taking time out of your busy lives to respond with extremely thoughtful, incisive, and intelligent observations and recommendations about ways to handle this.
My goal is indeed long-term reconciliation, but to agree with so many of you who’ve made the point, this cannot authentically be done, unless the full truth is on the table.
I have a pretty good instinct that everything possible between two people most likely did play out between my wife and her AP, and I am trying to spiritually prepare myself for a further severe shock, but I agree that at length it will be best to deal with all of this right now, and then try take that as a starting point from which to try to heal.
Sincerely, I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
